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Hello, you.

Welcome to my blog. I'm currently trying to brunch & blog my way through life, friendships, love, a career and everything else in between. Hope you enjoy reading through my brilliantly random ramblings.

I. Am. Enough.

I. Am. Enough.

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I. Am. Enough.

This is my reminder to myself that I am enough. This is my reminder to myself - for any time when I feel anything but - that I am worthy of good things and happiness and success. This is my reminder to myself, that sometimes, some things are just outside of my control. That sometimes, no matter how hard I try or how good my intentions are, bad things will happen but to remember that they are in no way any reflection of me and won’t always be my fault, either.

This is my reminder to myself, to not let anyone make me feel otherwise anymore. A reminder that I have a lot to give, that I am worth more than to just be someone else’s second choice or back up option. That I’m worth more than to just be used by other people whenever they want me one minute, and then to just drop me like I’m nothing the next.

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Over the last 3 years, I have spent more hours than I care to admit hiding from the world under my duvet, unable to stop the tears from flowing, unable to stop that awful, crushing feeling in my chest, and unable to stop thinking ‘what the hell is wrong with me?’ - all because someone else made me feel so unworthy.

This is my reminder to stop investing so much time, energy and efforts into people who only give me a fraction of it back. To stop expecting other people to do for me what I'd do for them, and to remember that I am capable of making someone happy - by being nothing other than me.

This is my reminder to take more notice of how I feel after I've spent time with people, and to run a mile from anyone who leaves me feeling shit instead of happy and inspired. This is my reminder to never again let anyone control anything - even if it seems like the tiniest of things.

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This is my reminder to not hang around next time, if I'm being made to feel like I'm not enough. That it's not worth the time or energy trying to prove myself to someone - because you shouldn't have to prove anything to anyone, right? This is my reminder to remember what I have to offer, and to save it and give it to people who really, truly appreciate what I do for them, instead.

This is my reminder that I am enough.

Putting my faith in that 'everything happens for a reason', mantra.

Putting my faith in that 'everything happens for a reason', mantra.

My goals for the rest of the year (2018, take 2!).

My goals for the rest of the year (2018, take 2!).